Monday, 22 May 2017

Exchange Program: Uniting the World

Cultural exchange program where one pure soul from France stayed with us for 10 days like a family & left tears & memories when he left. Now it was my turn to send my precious friend, son & companion to their house 

As he left from the airport bidding goodbye there were tears & also fear. Fear for he was going to a new place without family. "Oh he is grown up. Come on let him fly" one part of my heart said. "But will he be fine? What about his food & health " mother inside me argued 

Then I remembered how the French guy ( don't want to name) had become our family and my soul whispered " Don't worry. He is going to a great family. The guy was a gem & so would be his family ". And I was fine 

Days passed. Surprisingly this hyper mother didn't call the son every now & then to check. Somehow the soul connection made seemed permanent. No worry. There was a sense of security & calm. My soul was so sure that he is as good or even better than he is here. 

And it really happened. As he arrived last night all he had was tears in his eyes of separation from these beautiful people & memories of them which will last life long. 

They made him swim in pool heated specially for him. Took him out for dinner at best places. Motocross bike ride. Amusement park. Gym. Video games, football match live in stadium .......unending list. They took great care of offering him all vegetarian food & best of fruits & juices. I can go on & on. 

After this cultural exchange my thought process has further strengthened. All souls are beautiful. Just look around. I am really blessed to have this beautiful French family in my life now.  

Why do we judge people by their nationality & religion. Religion is there to bind us not separate. This beautiful Christian family speaks volumes about humanity & love in this world. It may be Lord Rama or Jesus we all are creation of almighty. 

Through this blog I want to thank them all for taking care of my son more than me. I know thank you is a very small word to express my feelings. My blessings that may God always shower happiness on them. Every beat of my heart bless them with good health, success & peace. 

I look forward to meet them when I am in France & more so to host them in my house on their visit to India. This bond is permanent now. Glued & sealed 

Few take away from French system 

  • No school dress compulsory 
  • The students visit the teachers to their classes rather than teacher running from one class to other
  • Not only three streams but many more like music, psychology & many other skill development. 
  • The school gates open all the time. Trust no student miss the class. This is human psychology. You want to break rules if tied. Left free the urge goes away 
  • As usual no pollution. No Eve teasing. 
  • Small city away from Paris but well equipped with excellent public transport, education & health care 
  • Curriculum revised every three years to upgrade the books with latest syllabus 
  • The gifts. Wow. They have gifted me my favourite red wines. And then above that a beautiful silver bracelet. 

I do not know how will I pay back for so much love. But hurts when I read people on social media abusing each other on basis of religion. Calling Christians & Islam as enemy of Hindus. Why??? Have they experienced them?

I have. And I proudly say any religion in the world is not above humanity. And those who stick labels of religion on their foreheads have forgotten humanity long back. 

My gratitude to French and Indian Authorities for such remarkable initiatives. Takes the confidence level high and broadens the outlook towards this beautifyl world.

Special Thanks to teachers from India who accompanied them and took care of our kids like their own.

I can go on. But will end with a big invisible hug to all members of this warm family. My best wishes to them. 

Sunday, 21 May 2017

Referendum :a fresh perspective for my India

referendum  is a direct vote in which an entire electorate is asked to vote on a particular proposal. This may result in the adoption of a new law. In some countries it is synonymous with a plebiscite or a vote on a ballot question.

From a political-philosophical perspective, referendums are an expression of direct democracy. However, in the modern world, most referendums need to be understood within the context of representative democracy. Therefore, they tend to be used quite selectively, covering issues such as changes in voting systems, where currently elected officials may not have the legitimacy or inclination to implement such changes.
On 4 September 2008, amidst hundreds of thousands of protesters demanding the government resign, Thailand's premier Samak Sundaravej's government approved the idea of a referendum to ask the Thai electorate if it wanted to keep the government or not.

n Denmark, after a law has been passed by parliament, one third of the members can demand a referendum.[12] This does not apply to money bills or expropriation. A law that transfers sovereignty to an international organisation must be subjected to a referendum unless five sixth of the MPs vote for it. In both cases, to defeat the law the no votes must not only outnumber the yes votes, they must also number at least 30% of the electorate. Since all referendums have had much more than 60% turnout, no bill has yet passed due to lack of interest.

In Neither lands Since 1 July 2015, most laws can be subjected to a consultative referendum after their approval, following a request by 300,000 people.

BREXIT everyone is aware of.A referendum - a vote in which everyone (or nearly everyone) of voting age can take part - was held on Thursday 23 June, 2016, to decide whether the UK should leave or remain in the European Union. Leave won by 51.9% to 48.1%. The referendum turnout was 71.8%, with more than 30 million people voting.

No this blog is not about world. It is about my India . Our constitution gives us the status of one of biggest democracies in the world. Where every one has right  to vote and participate in taking India to world power

However there are issues. Issues lingering on for decades. Most for power greed of politicians knowing very well that changes will be great for country scare of vote loss. Appeasement politics has killed more than half the potential of this great country.

No political will to make India a Golden sparrow again by congress for six decades and tortoise speed of judiciary to put crook politicians behind bars derailed the entire economy and law and order.

But now India is blessed again. Blessed with another Iron Man Narendra Modi to take tough calls. Surgical strikes and Demonetisation are enough evidence. Had he not been elected in 2014 I would have shifted some place else as I only see hope in him. So the reason of this blog.

There are various issues on which main stream media and social media keep on debating. High pitch voices and trolling begins. But results: ZERO. 

Few issues like difference of court views on various religious festivals, or stone pelting on our Army Jawans or difference of treatment on ownership of Mandir or mosque are difficult issues to pass through parliament when both opposition and judiciary not in his favour. But referendum can be a game changer

Now the country is united with Aadhar. Why not we start with referendum on a particular issue which affects all in society. Since only Aadhar holders can vote (more or less all covered) the results can also be audited by CAG or any other governing body of repute.

Say we start with simple referendum 

Should caste based reservation be continued in a delicate profession like medical?

Now if we get  NO votes more than Yes Mr Modi can approach parliament and Supreme Court with results. This is voice of people. Now how will opposition react to this? They will be left  with few options to counter. We might have demonstrations every where but the issue will settle for ever.

This is just one example. But as my personal view it can be a game changer for reforms shall be implemented as solid data base of referendum behind it.

Else these changes will be difficult to implement. Issues like reservation not on caste but economic background lingering on and will continue to. Politicians will keep on dividing us to their benefits and no one shall dare to touch these issues. Talent shall be left behind and caste based politics shall continue brain drain.

I request all if you agree with me to spread the word. let us help our PM who is working day and night with some ideas and constructive feed back. To end 

IN the conclusion of his Making of India's Constitution, Justice Khanna writes:
"If the Indian constitution is our heritage bequeathed to us by our founding fathers, no less are we, the people of India, the trustees and custodians of the values which pulsate within its provisions! A constitution is not a parchment of paper, it is a way of life and has to be lived up to. Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty and in the final analysis, its only keepers are the people."[64]


Tuesday, 2 May 2017

# boycott Pakistani goods

As promised. I have been sitting and searching on google Pakistan online sites. Trust have left all my office work. The blog is not that refined as I have to catch up with my work.

Request all of you to forgive for any spelling errors. I Love my Army. The best I can do is harm Pakistan in a very small way as possible. I request all of you, even if you hate me to add this list to a portal and let the list grow. We shall have to make people aware not to buy these brands as Dr Gaurav Pradhan rightly said under WTO we cannot have blanket ban.

Let these brands die their natural death. Along with apparels what I noticed was buffalo leather and other accessories on rise in import for bags. Least we can do is stop using leather bags for some time.

Even most of dry fruits are from Pakistan..Even if we need to leave them for some time we shall not die.

Following are names of sites you can check.

Request someone to make a portal as when we all join together we can make a big difference.


Danish by Kashmiriyat is an idea personified by the dexterous collaboration of one of the finest designers of Pakistan Danish Saeed and the most sought after brand on indiaroots, Kashmiriyat. The aim of the brand is to transpire the vibrant cultural ambiance of Pakistan to your wardrobe through its gracefully embroidered soothing kurtas hued in exhilarating colours.

Pakistani Collection by Noorah offers you an exclusive range of salwar kameez, kurtas, kurta sets et al, both stitched and unstitched. The brand aims to showcase pakistani culture to a global audience and carve a space to revive the ethnic rich crafts of ornate embroidery moulded in modern trends.?

Afiza houses an alluring range of ethnic kurtis tailor made to suit you from desk till dawn. The brand enhances its collection with minimal embroideries and subtle hues making each piece a must have for your summer wardrobe.


Fexy Women's Multicolor Leggings  (Pack of 3)

Azy Fabrics Cotton Printed Salwar Suit Dupatta Material  (Un-stitched)

Pakistan: A Nation Brand  (English, Paperback, Sher Hasnat)

Pakistan: A Nation Brand

Muggies Magic Imported From Pakistan Pakistanis Pakistanis Ceramic Coffee Tea Cup 11 Oz Ceramic Mug  (325 ml)

Muggies Magic Imported From Pakistan Pakistanis Pakistanis Ceramic Coffee Tea Cup 11 Oz Ceramic Mug

Amazon and other sites 

Pakistani Kurti Brand Zam Zam


Uptowngaleria100% Pakistani Cotton Lawn Dress Material

AhalyaaAhalyaa Cotton pakistani Digital Printed Kurti
I am just an ordinary citizen. But try and give my best time. Apologies for this blog not very professional as I have to earn  bread for living unlike our few politicians who Bollywood personalities who have immense wealth and are only bothered about themselves and give gyan on Artists should not be involved
Also neither I am a lover of so called grand Khan's who have minted money in India yet they lose their voice when it comes to speaking against Pakistan. For them India is intolerant. Example is YUP me brand selling most of Pakistan stuff being promoted by Sharukh Khan.
I am emotional since yesterday when everyone blamed our hard working PM as coward. I ask everyone how do you deal with a nation where surgical strikes are questioned and Indian Jawaans martyred by Pakistan goes viral in 5 minutes without any need of proofHow do you fight enemies within who are internally planning with Pakistan to harm our PM. Am sure you know the video of Mr Mani Shankar Aiyar
How do you fight the so crazily followed Bollywood by our so class elite society who will not want to sacrifice three hours of entertainment to revenge our loss
Most important How to fight his own supporters who take his good work for granted. But any thing wrong he is treated as coward.
Take care India. We never valued the jewel we have in Mr Modi: Sad 

Monday, 1 May 2017

Trust or opportunistic? Modi followers who are you?

Dayanand faith in idol

When he was eight years old, his Yajnopavita Sanskara ceremony was performed, marking his entry into formal education. His father was a follower of Shiva and taught him the ways to impress Shiva. He was also taught the importance of keeping fasts. On the occasion of Shivratri, Dayananda sat awake the whole night in obedience to Shiva. On one of these fasts, he saw a mouse eating the offerings and running over the idol's body. After seeing this, he questioned that if Shiva could not defend himself against a mouse, then how could he be the savior of the massive world

Real faith by ordinary couple 

A man just got married and was returning home with his wife. They were crossing a lake in a boat when suddenly a great storm arose. The man was a warrior, but the woman became very much afraid because it seemed almost hopeless — THE BOAT WAS SMALL AND THE STORM WAS REALLY HUGE, AND ANY MOMENT THEY WERE GOING TO BE DROWNED. But the man sat silently, calm and quiet as if nothing was happening.
The woman was trembling and she said, “Are you not afraid? This may be our last moment of life! IT DOESN’T SEEM THAT WE WILL BE ABLE TO REACH THE OTHER SHORE. Only some miracle can save us, otherwise, death is certain. Are you not afraid? Are you mad or something? Are you a stone or something?”
THE MAN LAUGHED AND TOOK THE SWORD OUT OF ITS SHEATH. The woman was even more puzzled — what he is doing? Then he brought the naked sword close to the woman’s neck — so close that just a small gap was there, it was almost touching her neck.
He said, “ARE YOU AFRAID?”
She started to giggle and laugh and said, “WHY SHOULD I BE AFRAID? If the sword is in your hands, why should I be afraid? I know you love me.”
He put the sword back andame a said, “This is my answer. I know God loves me, and the sword is in His hands, and the storm is in His hands — so WHATSOEVER IS GOING TO HAPPEN IS GOING TO BE GOOD. If we survive, good; if we don’t survive, good — because EVERYTHING IS IN HIS HANDS, AND HE CANNOT DO ANYTHING WRONG.”
This is the trust one needs to imbibe. SUCH TREMENDOUS TRUST IS CAPABLE OF TRANSFORMING YOUR WHOLE LIFE! And ONLY such tremendous trust is capable of transforming your life — less than that won’t do.
No this is no gyan session. This is all about trust we hold in a person. Swami Dayanand chose to believe that Idol worship is all fraud as Shiva could not protect his laddoo. What he did not think was that may be lord Shiva came as a mouse to eat laddoo. He doubted his own faith
In the second story the wife had full trust on the husband. The man, in turn, had full faith on god
Now lets come to real facts. We all call ourselves Bhakts of Prime Minister Narendra Modi. But do we really trust him? When he will launch surgical strikes taking the biggest political risk we applaud him and treat him like God. But when in a terrorist strike our soldiers are martyred we start naming him a coward.
Yes, I am in pain. Pain today for the double standards of twitter handles and media. Do not believe me check this out tweets of Modi Ji supporters at the time of Surgical Strikes and Same handle tweets post-Jawans Martyred today and by Naxalites. I can show you 100s of such tweets but I would not like to point the finger on any particular handle. They are also our brother and sisters. Hence I leave this to your wisdom. Check out yourself.
I ask them is this phenomenon new? cross-border firing and our Jawans being sacrificed were not before Mr Modi? Yes, the media was quite as was then Prime Minister Manmohan Singh. At least now we have the gutsy Prime Minister who could think of surgical strikes.
Theses attacks are nothing but the frustration of Pakistan and China against India being a super power. Also, remember a tweet by Dr Pradhan after the US drop a big bomb in Afgan. He said, "You will see more aggressive Pakistan toward India". Demonetisation has affected Pakistan worst. More so Donald Trump is a threat looming all the time. To divert the attention of the world they resort to such cowardly means. But that is Pakistan. What else to expect from them. They are feeling insecure of satellite launch, a gift by india to south Asia on May 5. So they want media attention to this act.
As usual, our paid media playing in their hands. But what about ardent followers of Mr Modi. He quite does not mean he is not thinking about it. Remember there is complete quietness before the storm.
In 1972 Munich massacre where the entire Olympic team was assassinated by PLO. Then Israel PM Golda Meir Just said one line "Their death will be avenged"  She quietly formed a team to find out any person directly or indirectly involved in the massacre. The task was to eliminate all involved Unconfirmed reports put the target at 20 to 35 people.
Took them almost 20 years but they never gave up. In the end killing everyone involved. The difference......Their people had complete trust and faith in leaders unlike us who start abusing on every issue.
So carry on. Call our PM a coward. Vote for Rahul or Arvind in 2019. But please do a favor to yourself. Either stop calling yourself follower or trust him. For love and worship has no place for doubt. I love my Mr. Narendra Modi and will support him always as I have trust in his wisdom. So I live in peace and am fearless

Monday, 3 April 2017

Laws of injustice

Ban sale of liquor on all National, State Highways from 1 April: Supreme Court

I woke up to this news and not much affected I was busy with my usual work. Then visiting social media I realised how the order shall affect lacs of people and families who had liquor stores and paid good amounts for their excise license.

Going into further details I saw the figures in newspapers. Revenue for five star hotel chains like Oberoi,Taj ,Hyatt and Accor groups together with small and medium enterprises shall cause a loss of 65000 crores to hospitality industry. 

Leaving the revenue loss it shall render lacs of people jobless and out of work in a scenario where jobs are in scarcity and banks not willing to give loans. Further to this SC changes the distance to 500 metres from Highway. So basically new shops and restaurants will come up and existing ones will die.

Someone looking for Alcohol will have no issues driving another 500 metres or even stocking the same with him. Surprisingly in this case banks are prompt to take recover loans advanced to vendors on highway who are duly servicing them and paying taxes. Banks only go on silent mode when Rich and influential are involved. Else they are quick to send recovery agents if you miss EMI for your car.

It is not the first time that rules have been mended to favour others. I remember few years back I was about to invest in a residential house to be rented to a bank as that the entire colony road was being used for commercial purposes in Malviya Nagar and Saket. However the deal go delayed and I missed out. 

Few days later all commercial activities were banned and my regret also went away. In fact I complimented congress government for acting strictly on illegal occupants. However to my surprise few months later all bans lifted and now commercial activities on highest scale all over the place. You can guess the motive?

Yes, six to seven malls were coming up in Saket and the entire mafia wanted the shopkeepers to shift to malls as they were not selling. As soon as Malls got their tenants the commercial activity again opened up as that is daily wage for MLA and other authorities of the area

My friend had a chemist shop on Vasant Kunj road which was threatened as illegal as it leads to airport and they wanted to broaden the road. Rightly so. He in hurry sold the shop to someone else. This is 10 years back. Has the road changed? No. No one shall dare to demolish illegal construction on that road leading to world best Airport,IGI. Reason coz majority is occupied by the peace loving religion.

The same is happening again. Shifting shops 500 to 200 metres is not going to solve any issue but shall create more jobless people and help others (who knows who) have already invested in property in area not covered within the distance. Is this fair? Business from one hand to other without any change in sales?